💅 Don’t Call Me Ma’am, I’m Hot Josh

I was just trying to order a Spicy Deluxe Combo from a drive-thru—classic craving, nothing outrageous. It was a Wednesday, I was 27, and I remember because I was wearing my gray hoodie with the bleach stain I had convinced myself was “a vibe.”

I roll up to the speaker.

“Hi, welcome to Chick-”
And before the sentence could even finish, the voice goes:
“Ma’am, can you speak up?”

Ma’am.
MA’AM.

Excuse me? Hot Josh is many things: punctual, glowing, emotionally unbothered—but ma’am is not one of them.

I froze. I felt my dignity trying to crawl out of the car.

“No offense,” I said, “but if we’re throwing around honorifics, let’s at least get the pronouns right.”

A pause. Then a stammered, “Oh, uh—sorry, sir?”

It was too late. The entitlement switch flipped on. I wasn’t even mad. I was activated.

I pulled around, took off my hoodie like I was about to do a catwalk, fixed my hair in the rearview mirror, and glided to the window like I was about to audition for America’s Next Top Customer.

The kid at the window looked 15 and terrified. I smiled.

“Do I look like a ma’am?”
He blinked. “No?”
“Exactly. That’s the energy. Let’s match it next time.”

I took my sandwich and large waffle fries with the grace of a red carpet queen and drove off like nothing had happened. Did I circle back just to repeat the order into the speaker in a deeper voice? Maybe.

Consequences?

I now get called “boss,” “king,” or sometimes just “uhhh” at drive-thrus.

Lesson Learned?

Entitlement isn’t always about getting what you want—it’s about reminding the world that you are Hot Josh, and respect is the minimum.

The Unlimited Breadstick Incident

I was 24 years old and out with friends at a well-known Italian chain restaurant, the kind that promises endless soup, salad, and—most importantly—unlimited breadsticks. It was a casual Tuesday night, and I had already cleared through three baskets before the waiter’s enthusiasm noticeably waned.

“More breadsticks, please,” I requested with the confidence of a man who knew his rights.

“Of course,” the waiter said, forcing a smile. Ten minutes later, a single lonely breadstick arrived.

“Just one?” I asked.

“Uh… yeah, we’re just spacing them out,” the waiter replied. Suspicious.

I decided to test this newfound rationing policy. I made direct eye contact and said, “I’ll take another round of unlimited breadsticks.“

A manager appeared soon after. “Sir, we just want to make sure you’re enjoying your meal and not… stockpiling.”

Stockpiling? What was this, a black-market breadstick operation?

I doubled down. “Are they unlimited or not?”

The manager hesitated. “Well, yes… but… in reason.”

“Define ‘reason,’” I said, because words matter.

After an awkward silence, six more baskets arrived. Victory.

But the triumph was short-lived. Thirty minutes later, the bill arrived—with an added charge labeled ‘Excessive Breadstick Consumption Fee – $7.99.’

I fought it. I had no regrets. But legal action seemed excessive over doughy carbs, so the battle ended in a compromise: they waived the fee, and I agreed not to request any more breadsticks.

Lesson learned?
If a restaurant promises unlimited, they better mean it.

The Great Office Thermostat War

At age 28, I found myself locked in a passive-aggressive war over the office thermostat. It all started on a Monday morning when I walked into what could only be described as a corporate igloo. Someone—some monster—had set the thermostat to 64 degrees. Sixty-four! Inside!

I, a person of reason and warmth, immediately adjusted it to a civilized 72. By lunch, it was back at 64. This was not a coincidence. This was war.

The next day, I arrived early and cranked it to 75—a tactical preemptive strike. By mid-morning, it was back to 64. I left passive-aggressive notes. They left cryptic responses like “Some of us don’t want to sweat through our shirts.” To which I replied, “Some of us don’t want to contract hypothermia at our desks.”

Things escalated. I bought a space heater. They hid the space heater. I locked the thermostat cover. They stole the key. It was an arms race of petty proportions.

Eventually, HR intervened. A compromise was reached—69 degrees. Nobody was happy, which apparently meant it was “fair.”

Lesson learned? Some battles aren’t about winning. They’re about making sure everyone else suffers equally.

The VIP Parking Fiasco

I was on top of the world—or at least that’s how it felt cruising in my newly leased sports car, a machine so sleek it practically whispered, “You’re better than everyone else.” It was the kind of car that begged to be shown off, and there was no better place than the city’s most exclusive shopping district.

The street gleamed with luxury storefronts, each window a shrine to the absurdly overpriced. Naturally, I believed my car deserved the best, which obviously meant parking right in front of the swankiest store, in a spot clearly marked “Reserved for VIPs Only.”

“Reserved for me,” I muttered confidently, tossing my keys with a flair that I was certain made me look like a Hollywood A-lister. After all, who was more VIP than a guy driving this beauty?

I strutted through the store, oozing entitlement with every step, basking in the envious glances of other shoppers. There was nothing like the ego boost of watching people try to figure out if they’d seen my face on TV.

Thirty minutes and a few unnecessary purchases later, I exited the store, expecting to find my car gleaming in the sun, perfectly untouched and admired from a distance. Instead, I found a parking officer leaning against the hood, writing a ticket with the enthusiasm of someone who’d been waiting for this moment their entire career.

I marched over, fully prepared to assert my VIP status. “Hey, this is obviously a mistake. That spot is for VIPs.” I pointed at the sign, then at myself, as if that would magically make the ticket vanish.

The officer looked me up and down, unimpressed. “Do you have a VIP permit?”

I faltered. “A what?”

“A VIP permit. You know, the kind issued by the city for this exact spot?”

I stammered, “Well, no, but I’m clearly… I mean, just look at the car!”

The officer’s deadpan expression could have withered a houseplant. “Nice car. But no permit, no parking.”

I tried charm, persuasion, even a hint of flirtation. But the officer wasn’t buying it. He handed over the ticket, adding with a smirk, “That’ll be $250. Enjoy your day, ‘VIP.’”

The realization hit me like a ton of bricks. The entitlement that had been propping me up came crashing down, leaving me with nothing but an expensive lesson in humility—and a parking ticket to match.

As I drove away, my ego a little bruised, I vowed to never assume I was above the rules again… at least until the next time I found a spot too good to pass up.

Lesson Learned: Just because I felt like a VIP didn’t mean the law agreed.

A Case of Reverse Entitlement: “I’m Not Paying for That!”

The Situation

I was 23, out for a group dinner at one of those trendy, overpriced restaurants—the kind that puts microgreens on everything and charges $5 for “handcrafted” ice cubes. The food was fine, nothing spectacular, but I was there more for the company than the meal.

Then the bill arrived. And there it was, hiding among the usual overpriced nonsense: a $3 charge for splitting an entrée.

I hadn’t split an entrée.

I flagged down the waiter. “What’s this?” I asked, pointing at the charge.

“Oh, that’s a standard fee if we see food being shared.”

Now, let’s be clear—at no point did I hand my plate over to anyone. All that happened was that I let my friend take a single bite from my dish. One bite. And they wanted three bucks for it.

This was war.

The Handling of It

I sat back, crossed my arms, and prepared for battle. “So, if I had eaten the whole thing myself, there wouldn’t be a charge. But because a single forkful traveled across the table, that’s three dollars?”

The waiter, clearly trained for this nonsense, shrugged. “It’s just the policy.”

“Well, my policy is not paying for things I didn’t do.”

The table went quiet. My friends, clearly entertained, watched as I prepared my case like a lawyer in a courtroom drama. I pointed out that no extra plate was brought, no food was divided, and that my single act of generosity shouldn’t come with a financial penalty.

The waiter, growing uncomfortable, called over the manager. The manager, in turn, gave me a tired look like she had fought this battle too many times before. “Sir, it’s really just a small charge.”

“If it’s so small, take it off,” I said.

Now it was a principle thing. They were betting I’d let it go because it was ‘just’ three dollars. But I knew if I caved, I’d be sending a message: that I was okay with being nickel-and-dimed for nothing.

The Consequences

The manager sighed, pulled out a pen, and scribbled the charge off the bill. Victory. I smiled, thanked her, and handed over my card—because I’m not a monster, I still paid for my meal. Just not for their ridiculous charge.

As we left, my friend patted me on the back. “That was inspiring,” he said.

“I know,” I replied.

And that’s how I won three dollars and the moral high ground in one night.

Lesson Learned

Always check the bill. Always challenge nonsense fees. And most importantly, never let a restaurant charge you for being nice.

Hot Josh’s Valentine’s Day Payback

Valentine’s Day. A day for romance, overpriced chocolates, and people pretending to be more in love than they actually are. I had a date lined up with someone I had been seeing casually—nothing serious, but I figured dinner at a fancy restaurant wouldn’t hurt. Plus, I fully expected not to pay for it.

Now, before anyone gets judgmental, let’s be clear: I had my reasons. The last few times I had gone out with this particular date, I had picked up the tab. Every. Single. Time. This was supposed to be her turn. Fair is fair, right?

So, we arrive at this upscale place—the kind where they serve food on giant plates with little specks of sauce that look like modern art. The waiter hands us menus, and I make sure to mention how much I’ve “been looking forward to a nice treat.” She smiles. I assume she gets the hint.

I order the steak. Not the cheap one, either. She orders a salad—concerning, since I’m expecting a full-course meal from her side to balance this transaction. But maybe she’s just one of those people who eat light on dates.

The night goes well. We talk, we laugh, we pretend to care about the love stories of the other couples around us. Then, the check arrives. And she doesn’t even flinch. She just sips her wine, waiting.

I clear my throat. She smiles. I smile back. A full minute passes.

Finally, I break. “So… should we split this?”

She tilts her head, genuinely confused. “Oh, I thought since you picked the place, you had it covered.”

Picked the place? I had suggested it. That’s not the same thing!

Realizing I had been outmaneuvered, I swallowed my pride (and my dignity) and pulled out my card. The waiter gave me that “Ah, another one who thought he had it all figured out” look.

Lesson learned: Never assume someone else is going to pick up the tab, even if it’s “their turn.” Also, maybe don’t expect a payback meal on Valentine’s Day—it turns out, love doesn’t operate on a ledger.

But don’t worry—I made sure to take full advantage of the chocolate-covered strawberries before leaving.

That Time I Demanded a VIP Experience at the DMV

There are few places in life where entitlement should really count for something, and in my mind, the DMV was one of them. See, I had important things to do—places to be, people to charm—and sitting in a government-issued plastic chair surrounded by the general public for what felt like an eternity was not one of them.

So, there I was, armed with my impeccable sense of self-worth, striding into the DMV like I owned the place. I took one look at the ticket system and thought, Oh no, no, no. This is a clear misunderstanding. I’m not a ‘B274’ kind of guy—I’m more of a ‘Straight to the Front’ type.

I approached the desk with all the confidence of someone who had never faced true consequences. “Hey, so, how do I get into the VIP line?” I asked, leaning on the counter like I was about to order bottle service.

The woman behind the desk blinked at me. Slowly. “Sir, we don’t have a VIP line.”

I chuckled, assuming she was being coy. “Come on. You mean to tell me there’s no special tier for people who—let’s say—value their time a little more?”

She stared at me in a way that made it very clear she did not, in fact, value my time. “Take a number.”

This was unacceptable. I glanced around, searching for some kind of manager—surely there was someone who could recognize the gross injustice of me waiting with everyone else. But all I saw were tired government employees and even more tired citizens who had, apparently, accepted their miserable fates.

So I did what any self-respecting entitled person would do. I sighed loudly. I muttered about the inefficiency of government agencies. I paced, checked my watch dramatically, and gave the employees my best do you know who I am? expression.

And then, after two hours—yes, two actual hours of waiting like a commoner—I finally reached the counter. “License renewal,” I grumbled.

The woman, the same one from before, simply smirked. “Oh, you forgot to fill out your form. Back to the end of the line.”

The moral? Entitlement only gets you so far. And at the DMV, it gets you precisely nowhere.

Lesson Learned:
The DMV doesn’t care who you think you are. Bring a snack.

The Buffet Battle of 2014

In 2014, I had perfected the art of attacking buffets with ruthless efficiency. The key? Stacking. Not just food—plates. Why waste time making multiple trips when I could construct a well-balanced, multi-tiered feast in one go? It was a strategy that combined structural engineering with unapologetic gluttony, and it had never failed me.

Until Carl.

I was about four plates deep into my mission when a shadow fell over my table. I looked up to see a wiry man with a name tag that simply read “Carl.” His arms were crossed, his expression grim.

“Sir, we have a limit of two plates at a time per guest,” he said.

I blinked. Two plates? At a buffet? Where the sign clearly stated ALL YOU CAN EAT? Nowhere did it say All you can eat, but only in small, controlled increments dictated by Carl.

I gestured at my plates. “There’s no waste here,” I assured him. “Every bite will be consumed.”

“It’s about waste management,” he repeated.

Now, that set me off. I had never in my life wasted food at a buffet. I treated it like a sacred pact: you take it, you eat it. But Carl was unmoved. The way he stood there, arms crossed, trying to exert buffet dominance—I couldn’t let this stand.

Other diners had started watching. A guy in a Hawaiian shirt leaned in and muttered, “Let him stack, Carl.” A kid at the next table clutched his chicken tender, eyes wide with anticipation.

I took a deep breath and made a counteroffer. “How about this? If I clear every plate, no rules. But if I leave even a single bite, you can revoke my stacking privileges.”

Carl hesitated. He probably thought he had me. He didn’t know who he was dealing with.

So the showdown began.

I ate with the precision of a surgeon and the commitment of a man who refused to be limited by arbitrary plate restrictions. Bite after bite, I proved my point. The Hawaiian shirt guy was nodding in approval. Even the kid was invested now.

Carl watched, arms still crossed but expression shifting. By the time I put down my last fork, every plate was spotless. Not a crumb remained.

Carl sighed. “I can’t argue with that.”

And just like that, I had won. Victory tasted like unlimited dinner rolls and the sweet, sweet knowledge that I had bested the buffet system.

Lesson learned: Rules are negotiable when you have the stomach and the determination to push back.

The “Prime” Time Delivery Debacle

At 30, one expects certain things to run smoothly—like package deliveries. Amazon Prime promised me two-day delivery. I planned everything: wake up, sip my coffee, and behold my new pair of noise-canceling headphones delivered promptly by 11 a.m. It was the perfect timeline.

But 11 a.m. came and went. By noon, my mailbox still stood woefully empty. Then, at 12:17 p.m., I saw the UPS truck pull up. I rushed to the window, almost spilling my coffee. The driver had the audacity to walk past my door… and deliver my neighbor’s package first.

Outraged, I flung open the door and asked, “Excuse me, where’s my package?”

The driver blinked at me, clearly unprepared for my level of commitment to entitlement. “Yours is next. I’ll be right back.”

“Next?” I said. “Prime promises two-day delivery, and your prioritization has already cost me four minutes.”

The driver chuckled—a mistake. “Sir, I’ll be right there.”

“Oh, I’ll wait right here,” I said, standing with arms crossed as my neighbor opened their door to collect their gloriously on-time delivery.

Moments later, my package was in my hands. As the driver got back in his truck, I yelled after him, “Remember who pays your salary!” A touch dramatic, but in the moment, it felt right.

Lesson learned? Patience may be a virtue, but sometimes a well-timed guilt trip gets your package faster.

Photo Description: Hot Josh, standing triumphantly on his porch, holding a freshly delivered Amazon package, with the UPS truck in the background. The expression on his face says, “I’ve won this round.”

The Gym Towel Saga

When I was 30, my fitness journey reached new heights. Every morning, I strolled into my neighborhood gym, towel in hand, earbuds ready, and prepared to conquer my workout. But one fateful Wednesday morning, an unexpected obstacle arose: a sign at the front desk proclaimed, “Towels Now Available for Rent Only. $3 Per Use.”

For years, the gym had offered complimentary towels. I had relied on them during those grueling HIIT sessions that left me drenched. But now, this audacious $3 fee for something that had been free? Unacceptable.

I immediately approached the front desk.

“Excuse me,” I began, my tone measured but firm. “I’ve been a member here for years, and this towel fee wasn’t part of the original agreement. Are you saying we’re now being charged to not sweat all over the equipment?”

The attendant, a young man clearly unprepared for the day’s challenges, stammered, “Uh, yeah. It’s a new policy.”

I wasn’t deterred. “I’m not paying $3 for a towel. Either I’ll bring my own or sweat freely.”

“Sweat freely” wasn’t as compelling a phrase as I had hoped, but it did catch the attention of a few gymgoers within earshot. They nodded in solidarity.

For the next week, I made it my mission to challenge the towel fee—but creatively. I arrived with beach towels, a monogrammed bath sheet, and even a small throw blanket. My colorful protests drew laughter and camaraderie, sparking a mini-rebellion. Other members joined in, some with their own oversized towels and others writing complaints to management.

The gym’s management eventually caved to the pressure. They reinstated complimentary towels but added a gentle reminder about taking only one per person.

Consequences and Lessons Learned: I became a local legend at the gym, earning the nickname “Towel Titan.” While the towel saga brought some new friends into my life, it also served as a reminder of the importance of standing up against unfair policies—especially ones that sneakily prey on convenience. And, of course, the lesson that sometimes you’ve got to sweat the small stuff to make a big difference.